It's not apartheid. And there wuold be no need for military if ppl stopped living like savages...its really that simple.
But here's another question to ponder. Isn't Israel what you want? Meaning you go on and on about all these other races and how their victims of racism, not allowed self determination, were forced onto slavery, treated less than, etc. That was the jews. And they were given everything as you want. So either it's human nature, or you're claiming no...for Palestinians, black people, etc it would be different. If you believe the latter...thats what, indeed, makes you an anti semite.
Collateral damage is the awful side effect of war...Israel minimizes it more than anywhere else. They could kill a million terrorists but if one civilian gets injured that's your entire focus. The entire worlds borders are man made, there have been battles for different races and religions just the same ad there gave been battles between ppl of the same. Its been this way since the beginning of time...everyone else moved on and lives civilized. There could be a 2nd Dubai sitting on the Gaza strip....why isn't there?
It's not apartheid, Arabs live in Israel, it's not genocide, the population of Gaza continues to grow. They are savage ppl who don't want to be governed by anything but terrorists and have shown zero desire to be led by anything else.