Funny you should ask dipsnot - we HAVE fostered kids, we have helped my brother with a place to stay and getting him into rehab, we have helped another friend with a place to live TWICE over the past couple of years. My wife donates her time to families with Huntington's disease. I've built and maintained websites for local Alzheimer's association groups for a couple of years. We actually do invest time vs. money which is what most people do. We've talked about fostering older kids because those are the ones who generally need the most help and people don't want them. Selfishly I don't know if I want to take in kids that old but luckily my wife has opened my heart and I'm willing to be uncomfortable for a little while to help a kid maybe have a chance in this life. Before I met her I would have donated money and patted myself on the back. But I don't go to church so I guess that automatically makes me worse than the 'christian' who goes to church a couple times a year and misquotes bible verses.
It always cracks me up when people compare letting immigrants into the country to letting them in your house. Really bad analogy. Never did I advocate taking in everyone. But you can't actually make any relevant points so you have to exaggerate. You act like we're just giving these people everything in the world and it's costing us soo much money. If I remember, immigrants are a net positive on the economy according to recent studies (the study the WH tried to hide btw). Immigrants in general work pretty hard and provide for multiple family members. They don't come here to get a bunch of free stuff. They come for the opportunity to better their life and get their family away from gang violence.
Hollywood, Trump and the religious leaders in this country all have this problem you speak of. Melanie is preaching about bullying while her husband tweets insults and hate to his followers.
But sorry, I didn't realize advocating we not rip kids away from their parents is lecturing you