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It’s disappointing to see many of you appear to defend Gruden. Idk if he’s racist or not but he said some racist things. And he was 48 when he did it. I could see if he was younger. That’s not to mention everything else. This isn’t a political subject. It’s right and wrong.
You know what. I wouldn’t email the things gruden did but I will defend to hell and back his right to say it. It’s not about whether you agree with gruden it’s whether you love freedom and free speech. Let’s look at everyone’s work emails private emails socials etc. no one will have a job it is with out a doubt a witch hunt when you know the nfl which is blatantly mysoginistic, homophobic etc especially in 2012 when the nfl goes after 1 guy.
 
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2018/05/02/sports/redskins-cheerleaders-nfl.amp.html

I went and checked the nudes were part of a photo shoot and were sent to gruden by Bruce Allen. The guy spreading lies about some porn scheme concocted by gruden should be banned and his libel should be deleted.

another thing on a site that refers to women as “wood” and other sexual references what the hell is the difference. 95% of you even the haters would have nothing no job no family.
 
easy for you to say sitting behind a keyboard. What if some people started looking into your past and nitpicked every single thing you've ever said in your life to find something to Cancel You from your job and your life?

I guess you're probably a Twitter fan too.
He used company email to spew garbage. Not sure about your job, but mine would be gone too if I did that. We have rules about using work email in that manner. It wasn't a just a stupid Facebook post on his phone.
 
You know what. I wouldn’t email the things gruden did but I will defend to hell and back his right to say it. It’s not about whether you agree with gruden it’s whether you love freedom and free speech. Let’s look at everyone’s work emails private emails socials etc. no one will have a job it is with out a doubt a witch hunt when you know the nfl which is blatantly mysoginistic, homophobic etc especially in 2012 when the nfl goes after 1 guy.
He lost his job. He’s not going to prison (unless something comes from the topless photos). Freedom of speech protects you from the government not your employer.
 
I haven't read any statements from offended players. I would bet, not one player lost a moments sleep over his comments last night.
Wouldn't effect me at all playing for a guy like that. I'm a big boy able to deal with reality in the real world.
I am quite certain you would be sensitive playing for a guy like that.
Well look at you. You probably weren’t bothered by the comments because you share some or most of them. And if you think no one on the team was bothered then I don’t know what to tell you. He was in his late 40’s when he wrote those emails. These aren’t from when he was 17 and a dumb kid. And he quit. He didn’t even fight it. He knows he is wrong.
 
Because people didn't care as much about this kind of thing beyond 2 years ago.

That's bullsht. You would get fired in 2005 for having viewed "nudes" (porn) on a work computer. You could lose your job for asking someone out at work in 2000, if the person simply didn't like or want to date the person asking. You could get fired for calling anyone at your job a certain word if you weren't one of the people allowed to say those words.

The fact is that it only happens with someone in the public eye (and either valuable or marketable) when someone with power and money wants it to happen. It almost never seems to go through proper legal channels as it should.

What sucks is that 20 yrs ago I could tell who was racist, perverse, and bigoted by how they talked openly, avoid those people, and not work with them as clients regardless of race or sexual orientation. Now I cant tell if some are that way and have to work with some regardless of how racist they may be.

In 1999 I could kick a neighbor to the curb, break up with a girl, or fire someone for saying racist/bigoted sht or being a complete perve. Now I have to make sure the person doesn't have political, legal, or monetary juice behind them because they can merely accuse and someone is ruined.

As a friend used to say, "I preferred it when I could see, hear, or read their bigoted thoughts so I could either choose an appropriate response or avoid contact with them altogether."
 
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Some of y'all are so ignorant it's pitiful. This ain't Republican vs Democrat or Woke vs umm "fake patriots" this is right vs wrong.
It wasn't an isolated incident. It shows who someone really is inside. Sadly, a man I loved for getting my Bucs their first Super Bowl title, is a POS. Being racist isn't cool, being homophobic isn't cool, nore is treating women like sh*t. I'm not woke, I just have a mixed daughter, gay loved ones and another daughter I don't want being treated like ass from some man. Welcome to America those bitching


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He lost his job. He’s not going to prison (unless something comes from the topless photos). Freedom of speech protects you from the government not your employer.
If he lose his job for this then yours is next. I guarantee you there is more damning info in those emails about Snyder and others but not a peep from the nfl leaks. It was a witch hunt and I have a problem with that. Also I just posted a link about the photos. What law did he break? Did he even send them? I only see where Bruce Allen sent them to him. This thread and the media narrative are half truths leading people to ponder whether gruden will go to jail. Lol. These weren’t pic taken unknowingly and to top that they weren’t even taken in the states! First they go for gruden and next will be the guys in the paddock posting what they do.
 
Are you one of his players? Are you one of anyone’s players?

If not, how about his players? What do you know?
At least you are man enough to admit you share his thoughts. I’ve been in plenty of locker rooms. It’s called a team for a reason. If you offend my teammates you offend me. I haven’t heard any guys taking up for him. And for the record I doubt he’s any more racist than any other white nan of that age. But he is stupid and arrogant. And it bit him
 
At least you are man enough to admit you share his thoughts. I’ve been in plenty of locker rooms. It’s called a team for a reason. If you offend my teammates you offend me. I haven’t heard any guys taking up for him. And for the record I doubt he’s any more racist than any other white nan of that age. But he is stupid and arrogant. And it bit him
You are no man if you create strawman and fictional arguments to attack others.

Neither you nor I know much about how his team feels about him. So, quit pretending. If you get some actual facts, I would be interested, because I think people who have actual relationships with the man can add more context than you.

[Ed-it] Ed has revealed himself as a baiter who cannot have a real discussion with someone, but must make personal attacks to prove his point. Ed, learn how to make a point with facts. It will serve you well if you actually want to have an impact.
 
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Yep. I fired a guy a couple of years ago for being blatantly racist and homophobic on his work IM chatting with one of his buddies outside the company. We found out about it because the company software caught the racial slurs. We can't have people saying crap like that using company resources while representing the company.

That said, why he was exposed is not really the point. He did it and deserves what he gets.


So instead of telling the person to use your own phone for non work related material you fire him.

With that same standard did you fire everyone else who used their phone for personal reasons?

Everyone has thoughts or feelings someone else in the world doesn't like. I vividly remember Trump supporters being fired in the work place because they supported the president at the time. That's wrong as well
 
At least you are man enough to admit you share his thoughts. I’ve been in plenty of locker rooms. It’s called a team for a reason. If you offend my teammates you offend me. I haven’t heard any guys taking up for him. And for the record I doubt he’s any more racist than any other white nan of that age. But he is stupid and arrogant. And it bit him
Anyone to take up for him will be vilified and they will go search their emails. Goodell is the gestapo and so are people like you. Like another poster said how do you know the haters if you shut everyone up??? It doesn’t matter in your distorted commie view of how America should be.
 
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If he lose his job for this then yours is next. I guarantee you there is more damning info in those emails about Snyder and others but not a peep from the nfl leaks. It was a witch hunt and I have a problem with that. Also I just posted a link about the photos. What law did he break? Did he even send them? I only see where Bruce Allen sent them to him. This thread and the media narrative are half truths leading people to ponder whether gruden will go to jail. Lol. These weren’t pic taken unknowingly and to top that they weren’t even taken in the states! First they go for gruden and next will be the guys in the paddock posting what they do.
My job won’t be next. I don’t send emails disparaging all different kinds of people. If these were Facebook messages or texts it’s different. He was sending these on work email. That’s a problem.

We’ll see what happens with the photos. He may have sent them. He may not have sent them. This is all new so we’ll see what comes out from all this. The team had to settle with the cheerleaders to make it go away. If someone else is distributing the photos I’d imagine the cheerleaders could take legal action as well.

I agree that there’s more to come from this in regards to Snyder. Maybe Gruden is the sacrificial lamb, but I doubt it. I suspect this gets even worse for Washington than it is for Gruden right now.
 
Ever think that maybe this a sports message board and therefore we comment on sports related things. It's really not that hard to figure out if you're not obsessed with partisan politics. Not to mention the right ignored greater offenses to prop up Trump.

But if Biden starts coaching and NFL team then it might make news on this board.

Waaah waaaaa waaah.

Ever think it might be a you problem? Because being a groper (among other things) isn't a "partisan politics" issue, is it? If you think it is, then YOU are "the partisan politics" adherent.

"The right" didn't ignore it. Some did. Some "on the left" and in "the middle" did as well, just as they did for the other candidates over the past decades. What's sick is that there is video evidence of one person's doing things (but somehow a person having seen it is an indictment of them, while ignoring it is somehow a virtue), and the other has accusations and settled out of court for money. When you or someone you know are/is accused and are ruined financially or go to prison as the end result of a mere accusation, you may understand.

The hypocrisy is getting a little thick in here.
 
You are no man if you create strawman and fictional arguments to attack others.

Neither you nor I know much about how his team feels about him. So, quit pretending. If you get some actual facts, I would be interested, because I think people who have actual relationships with the man can add more context than you.
I heard mike Terico taking up for him. Said he never knew him to be racist. Well duh mike. Did you expect him to be racist to you. Of course not. It’s what you do and say when you think no one except the person you are talking to can hear you. That’s called character. Was best man 20 years ago for a buddy. Girls family sang his praises and bragged what a great guy their daughter was marrying. And the groomsmen just laughed knowing how many times he had cheated on her.
 
Waaah waaaaa waaah.

Ever think it might be a you problem? Because being a groper (among other things) isn't a "partisan politics" issue, is it? If you think it is, then YOU are "the partisan politics" adherent.

"The right" didn't ignore it. Some did. Some "on the left" and in "the middle" did as well, just as they did for the other candidates over the past decades. What's sick is that there is video evidence of one person's doing things (but somehow a person having seen it is an indictment of them, while ignoring it is somehow a virtue), and the other has accusations and settled out of court for money. When you or someone you know are/is accused and are ruined financially or go to prison as the end result of a mere accusation, you may understand.

The hypocrisy is getting a little thick in here.
No doubt. The religious right citing porn sites is an interesting twist for sure.
 
I heard mike Terico taking up for him. Said he never knew him to be racist. Well duh mike. Did you expect him to be racist to you. Of course not. It’s what you do and say when you think no one except the person you are talking to can hear you. That’s called character. Was best man 20 years ago for a buddy. Girls family sang his praises and bragged what a great guy their daughter was marrying. And the groomsmen just laughed knowing how many times he had cheated on her.
Oh my, Ed using an anecdote about a guy he knows to demean the opinion of a man who actually knows Gruden because Ed read an email Gruden wrote. This is the nonsensical world in which we live.
 
My job won’t be next. I don’t send emails disparaging all different kinds of people. If these were Facebook messages or texts it’s different. He was sending these on work email. That’s a problem.

We’ll see what happens with the photos. He may have sent them. He may not have sent them. This is all new so we’ll see what comes out from all this. The team had to settle with the cheerleaders to make it go away. If someone else is distributing the photos I’d imagine the cheerleaders could take legal action as well.

I agree that there’s more to come from this in regards to Snyder. Maybe Gruden is the sacrificial lamb, but I doubt it. I suspect this gets even worse for Washington than it is for Gruden right now.
Even if he sent the consensual photo shoot pics what is criminal about that? Stop repeating it. You keep uttering this work email garbage. Who’s work email? He wasn’t working for the nfl. They showed up in the redskins front office emails. He didn’t work for Washington. Espn didn’t do the probe so we don’t know where he sent the emails from. And I promise you if your boss started a probe into your life or anyone on this forum with no statute of limitations they would find some things to run you out over whether you think you said it or not.
 
So instead of telling the person to use your own phone for non work related material you fire him.

With that same standard did you fire everyone else who used their phone for personal reasons?

Everyone has thoughts or feelings someone else in the world doesn't like. I vividly remember Trump supporters being fired in the work place because they supported the president at the time. That's wrong as well

Yep. You discharge that person if it is part of their work agreement not to do those things, as it is with most companies in the US. You do it on your own time and devices or you get fired. Pretty simple.

Everyone DOES have the right to their own thoughts and feelings. Yes.

If it is not expressed in the company manual or a contractual agreement, it's still a possibility they could fire you for your affiliations or posts elsewhere. "Employment at will" is a thing.

We all have freedoms, but we are not free from discrimination, hatred, or dislike. Those are the tools of the fascists and they will wield them with as deadly a force as they are allowed no matter where they are found among the population.
 
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To the people who say it was grudens work email.

The league wasn’t inclined to suspend Gruden. None of the emails released to date were sent when Gruden fell under the NFL’s jurisdiction. Even if he did (more on that below), there’s no specific provision of the Personal Conduct Policy that is directly violated by the contents of private communications.

https://us.yahoo.com/sports/league-likely-kept-leaking-emails-012710523.html

I can’t believe people are more concerned with what grudens said privately than they are of the nfl basically blackmailing him to resign. He should have never quit and sued their ass but gruden took the easy way out because he didn’t care to coach anymore they had to throw fat money at him to get him to coach.
 
I heard mike Terico taking up for him. Said he never knew him to be racist. Well duh mike. Did you expect him to be racist to you. Of course not. It’s what you do and say when you think no one except the person you are talking to can hear you.

I hear what you're saying. I found out at a class reunion that a friend of mine from high school was a racist. Shocked me but it shouldn't have. I was never allowed at his house. Never invited to a family gathering or birthday party. I just never thought about it at the time.


That’s called character. Was best man 20 years ago for a buddy. Girls family sang his praises and bragged what a great guy their daughter was marrying. And the groomsmen just laughed knowing how many times he had cheated on her.

I see. "Character" would've been not being friends with him much less "buddies" and letting her know he wasn't faithful.
 
Even if he sent the consensual photo shoot pics what is criminal about that? Stop repeating it. You keep uttering this work email garbage. Who’s work email? He wasn’t working for the nfl. They showed up in the redskins front office emails. He didn’t work for Washington. Espn didn’t do the probe so we don’t know where he sent the emails from. And I promise you if your boss started a probe into your life or anyone on this forum with no statute of limitations they would find some things to run you out over whether you think you said it or not.
The point of the photos is that they weren’t consensual. That’s where the problem could be for Gruden if he sent those out. That’s not hard to understand. The cheerleaders didn’t agree to naked photos of them being shared around the NFL.
 
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My takeaways are simply:

1. You never hit send on an email/IM/text that you would not want your mother to see or would not approve of. You also never talk negatively about another person with a paper trail. If you are going to say stupid things then make sure you are in the privacy of your home and no one is recording (which is another issue nowadays, just look at what happened to Morgan Waller out with his friends and someone was recording him). Gruden is one of these elite rich guys that thinks he is above the law and would never get caught.
2. The guy was never going to survive this, even though we are in the highest cancel culture era ever if you are a white male. That said, I think if Gruden was black or a woman he would have still had to resign over this in this instance. I see Clay Travis and Outkick already bashing the NFL and this happening. I agree to an extent with the hypocrisy of the rappers at the Super Bowl who can say racist/homophobic/sexist things in their music and get away with it, and be propped up as a selling point to make the NFL money...but again, you do not send stuff like this in a work email. Gruden is an idiot and should have resigned/been fired.
 
Well look at you. You probably weren’t bothered by the comments because you share some or most of them. And if you think no one on the team was bothered then I don’t know what to tell you. He was in his late 40’s when he wrote those emails. These aren’t from when he was 17 and a dumb kid. And he quit. He didn’t even fight it. He knows he is wrong.
yes, I do agree with most of his comments. you and your delicate sensibilities are just gonna have to get some counseling and learn how to deal with that. why are you so offended about his opinions in a private correspondence? I'm offended that you are pretending to be a self righteous respectable man, but you don't hear me complaining about it.
 
That's bullsht. You would get fired in 2005 for having viewed "nudes" (porn) on a work computer. You could lose your job for asking someone out at work in 2000, if the person simply didn't like or want to date the person asking. You could get fired for calling anyone at your job a certain word if you weren't one of the people allowed to say those words.

The fact is that it only happens with someone in the public eye (and either valuable or marketable) when someone with power and money wants it to happen. It almost never seems to go through proper legal channels as it should.

What sucks is that 20 yrs ago I could tell who was racist, perverse, and bigoted by how they talked openly, avoid those people, and not work with them as clients regardless of race or sexual orientation. Now I cant tell if some are that way and have to work with some regardless of how racist they may be.

In 1999 I could kick a neighbor to the curb, break up with a girl, or fire someone for saying racist/bigoted sht or being a complete perve. Now I have to make sure the person doesn't have political, legal, or monetary juice behind them because they can merely accuse and someone is ruined.

As a friend used to say, "I preferred it when I could see, hear, or read their bigoted thoughts so I could either choose an appropriate response or avoid contact with them altogether."
I was specifically referring to the racist aspect of this whole thing, should have been more clear about that. Beyond that, I don't have all the facts for this specific instance, I don't know that any of us do yet. But my point about 'now' being the time for the victims to take advantage of past wrongdoings is 100% correct. There has been no better time to take advantage of perceived injustices against a person individually or as a group. Maybe to say 'no one cared back then' wasn't the right way to phrase it.
 
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yes, I do agree with most of his comments. you and your delicate sensibilities are just gonna have to get some counseling and learn how to deal with that. why are you so offended about his opinions in a private correspondence? I'm offended that you are pretending to be a self righteous respectable man, but you don't hear me complaining about it.
I’ll add you to the list of terrible people on here. That list is getting long
 
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To the people who say it was grudens work email.

The league wasn’t inclined to suspend Gruden. None of the emails released to date were sent when Gruden fell under the NFL’s jurisdiction. Even if he did (more on that below), there’s no specific provision of the Personal Conduct Policy that is directly violated by the contents of private communications.

https://us.yahoo.com/sports/league-likely-kept-leaking-emails-012710523.html

I can’t believe people are more concerned with what grudens said privately than they are of the nfl basically blackmailing him to resign. He should have never quit and sued their ass but gruden took the easy way out because he didn’t care to coach anymore they had to throw fat money at him to get him to coach.
That article hints at there being worse emails involved. I think it’s shady that they’re only releasing Gruden’s emails. However, if you trash the commissioner of the NFL in an email and he finds out about it, odds are he’ll try to get you out. If I email my boss calling our CEO all kinds of names and disparaging him I wouldn’t expect to keep my job. Especially if the CEO finds out. That’s just how it is.
 
I hear what you're saying. I found out at a class reunion that a friend of mine from high school was a racist. Shocked me but it shouldn't have. I was never allowed at his house. Never invited to a family gathering or birthday party. I just never thought about it at the time.




I see. "Character" would've been not being friends with him much less "buddies" and letting her know he wasn't faithful.
I get what you are saying. At the time it wasn’t my business and I didn’t care. And I haven’t been friends with him for many years. He’s been divorced 3 times so he never changed his ways. I grew up, got married, had kids, my priorities changed. Gruden was late 40’s writing the emails. That’s just dumb.
 
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If he lose his job for this then yours is next.

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I guarantee you there is more damning info in those emails about Snyder and others but not a peep from the nfl leaks. It was a witch hunt and I have a problem with that. Also I just posted a link about the photos. What law did he break? Did he even send them? I only see where Bruce Allen sent them to him. This thread and the media narrative are half truths leading people to ponder whether gruden will go to jail. Lol. These weren’t pic taken unknowingly and to top that they weren’t even taken in the states! First they go for gruden and next will be the guys in the paddock posting what they do.

The witch hunt (and it is one) is about wresting the franchise away. The WFT (lol) administration didn't prostrate themselves and choose a mascot. I'm of native american ancestry and never had a problem with any respectful depictions of my people as warriors. As a kid the Seminoles were one of my favorite teams for that very reason.

I don't know enough about the rest (nor does anyone) at this point to say much more. It's all hearsay and rumor until verified in a court.

It's just another molecule of spit on the dirty window the surrounds the NFL.

The human trafficking surrounding their events needs to be kept at a distance and this type of story helps not to deal with it. It's the same way they defused the "ticking time bomb" of CTE. It's the politics of big business just like tobacco, pharmaceuticals, agri-chem, and other industries. Kind of a game of demented musical chairs. No one wants to be the CEO when the chickens come home to roost.
 
The ugly truth is that what he did on his work email was awful and he rightfully deserved to be fired, but if he was Billy B or Andy Reid he's not getting fired. Oakland took this opportunity to get out of that awful 10 year contract that they gave him and capitalized on it. It's the inconsistency that irritates people.
 
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I get what you are saying. At the time it wasn’t my business and I didn’t care. And I haven’t been friends with him for many years. He’s been divorced 3 times so he never changed his ways.

I understand. We don't often get taught that lesson that it IS our business to protect others even at our own risk. Adulterers/ cheaters/ disloyal people rarely do change their ways.

I grew up, got married, had kids, my priorities changed. Gruden was late 40’s writing the emails. That’s just dumb.

I think that's why he resigned. Not that he changed or will, who knows if that's true. I knew people in their 20s doing the same things 15 years ago. Some will do it until they can't get away with it anymore
 
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