Well, that's kind of what I mean. We live in VERY different areas. You mention 1 in 25 are are Liberal, for me it's the opposite. So that might explain our experiences.
I've never heard Conservatives flip out like that. For me it's the Liberals. They seem to be the ones to become enraged, take it way too personally, and almost use it as some form of grudge. And if they were actually able to do something, they probably would do it (The 120lb coffee barista or the free-spirit hippie leading a protest aren't exactly in a position to back up threats, even though they make them).
Maybe if you're one political view, and everyone around you is another, different viewpoints aren't as jarring. So you kind of just shrug off the fact that someone is the opposing view. Like "Oh well, Gays are apparently an abomination, what is else new" kind of thing.