1) no one expects you to march in Black Lives Matter protests. It's when people choose to ignore societal issues and divert attention by saying "All Lives Matter" that it becomes questionable.
2) no one expects you to throw a party or buy the bar out because gay marriage is legal. It's when people choose to direct hate towards gay people and attempt to legislate morality that it becomes questionable.
3) no one expects you to like Caitlynn Jenner or even not curse her name in your own home. It's when people choose to denigrate her and use her as a vehicle to direct their preexisting bigotry that it becomes questionable.
I'm glad at least one other poster responded to your points. In general, I disagree with the overall tone of your response as I feel you're setting up tangential issues to 'prove' your point of view.
1. The whole Black Lives Matter movement got a lot of attention due to a tragic shooting in Ferguson when a white police officer got into an altercation with a black man and ended up shooting him. A tragedy, for sure. An avoidable tragedy, imo, but a tragedy regardless. But, 'BLACK' lives aren't the only ones that matter. And black lives lost at the hands of whites make up a very small percentage of black lives lost prematurely. The BLM movement has said NOTHING about those facts. Saying ALL Lives Matter is not ignoring anything. If anything, Black Lives Matter ignores black-on-black crime, ignores young white people being killed, etc. Black lives do not matter any more or less than any other lives. That's the message behind All Lives Matter. But, in your own words, if someone says All Lives Matter then they are ignoring societal issues and diverting attention and their actions are 'questionable'? Pretty much the exact point I was making originally.
2. Here again, my experience with the gay marriage issue (which I actually supported without marching in parades) is if you aren't 100% on board, gung ho, it's because you're a narrow-minded, Bible thumping, homophobe. The whole gay agenda has been foisted on the American public and if you're not for it, there's something wrong with you. Personally, I could care less who or what an adult sleeps with as long as there is consent on both sides. But, I'm not marching in protests or in support. I don't care. But, nationally, one is not allowed to truly not care. If you're not out and proud, you're a homophobe.
3. Choose to denigrate her? She's a publicity whore who turned her 'courageous' decision into a TV show. And, by the way, felt so strongly about becoming a woman that she didn't get her male genitalia removed and is now considering transitioning back. I shouldn't make fun of or think poorly of that? Again, you're response is stating that because I or someone like me feels Caitlyn Jenner is a fake and huckster, I'm anti-TG. I don't revel in other people's pain. But encouraging individuals to mutilate themselves because they don't feel comfortable in their own skin and bullying others to celebrate their 'courage'? Leave me out of that.