Not a religious guy here but respect the institutions, and was at wedding a couple of months ago, very nice ceremony, local but no expense was spared on venue, catering full cocktail hour and apps, dinner, open bar all night but the person who was the officiant of the wedding was some friend of the couple and the whole service was a stand-up routine for him. I mean the whole thing doesn't have to be solemn but you could have had someone doing rimshots after every line. The guy made it completely about himself, it was really bizarre.