No, y'all are fighting against our notion of traditional marriage.
Marriage is a religious issue. I believe it is a one man, one woman institution. That said, I believe two homosexuals should be able to form a civil partnership in which each member of that partnership is entitled to the same benefits as a male/female married couple.
Why an attack on traditional marriage? It's not a problem with traditional marriage, it's a problem that those with an interest in such things keep harping on marriage, when they should focus on legal fairness.
Now if some want people like me to not only accept it, but support it, encourage it, say it's right...won't happen.