When I was single, various times, my constant fear was stds. Not really sure how I came away unscathed. I was a man whore.
When I was in my early 20's, I just kinda figured out how to "bed" women. Not talking about roofies, like our creep boi from memphis, but actually talking to them. The biggest secret, (meh), is to not make them feel uncomfortable.
Sounds simple, but most people are a huge pot of insecurities. They then want people to be ok with how messed up they think they are. The key, is that almost 99.99% of people are really messed up to some degree. Once you make them feel normal,
the trust begins. But they will give you opportunities to see if you judge them. They are very small windows, but at all times, you must let them know, its ok (not in a patronizing way).
My favorites were whores. Not $$ whores, but young, go to bars, looking to get laid and enjoyed sex. Now the key is to let you know that you are ok with this behavior, and do not judge them. You can do whatever you like in the bedroom later.
I mean obviously, there are other techniques as well as making them laugh, making them engaged, making them feel like they are in a moment, but thats all technique. Also, its what worked for me.
I am a big man that batted out of my league for years based on this.
Also, you must been seen with hot chicks. This is paramount. One fat chick will ruin your rep for at least 3-6 months. The desperation of banging a fatty will cling to your person like cheap cologne. Women can smell it a mile away. When you are with a hot girl (may be a friend or not), other girls look at girls. Not you. They hate other women. If they see you with a hot girl, they will think, f*ck that b*tch. Im gonna screw her man. I know it sounds crazy, but women are jacked. Ive slept with a lot of women just from their friends alone. Women are in constant competition, use it to your benefit.
That being said, happily married, and no other woman does it for me like my wife. Sounds gay, but after our first date/hanging out, I knew I was going to marry her. It was a rocky road, and we were off and on for years, but finally, we both settled down. Took years of changing to make it happen. I believe that each person has a purpose in life, and that is to overcome great struggle. I am not sure how many struggles, or why we need to learn the lessons, maybe a past life (I dont believe in past lives, I just use those words because I lack the vocabulary to adequately describe what I mean). I believe that my wife and I over came one of our great struggles. Hopefully, I can get past the one now. Fear. Fear of losing my children (death), but thats another post.
. It's ok to do every once in a while, but I actually prefer being in the office. I actually have to pay for the coffee here, and that's no fun.
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