First of all, I would never think of dropping my girls off at a trailhead and let them go off alone, without an adult to accompany them. The parents of both children presumably agreed to that, which is mind blowing to me. I'm sure they are in agony right now, and I certainly don't want to blame the parents for the unspeakable interceding actions of others, but I think most people would not have allowed those 13 year old girls to be walking alone.
On the other hand, I think we can go too far in the opposite direction and never let our children have any freedoms or enjoyment in life for fear of once-in-a-million+ events. My ex is extremely paranoid and has ridiculously irrational fears when it comes to anything-or anyone-foreign. I am taking 2 of my daughters (ages 12 and 15) on a trip over Spring Break to Punta Cana in a month, and I swear she thinks they will surely die outside of the country if I don't keep them within arm's reach at all times, and every foreigner has designs to cause them harm. She did, reluctantly, sign the consent form so they could get their passports--with the understanding that she will kill me if any harm comes to them. Caution is one thing, but to be held captive by your fears is a horrible way to go through life, and I don't want my children to miss opportunities and experiences because they fear the absolute worst at all times.
Finally, the person who did this, like all child rapists/child killers, is a sick and vile mother effer who deserves to suffer excruciating pain throughout eternity. No punishment is too severe for someone so depraved. It is beyond me how anyone could commit such heinous acts as destroying the purity and innocence of a child and violently ending the child's life.
On the other hand, I think we can go too far in the opposite direction and never let our children have any freedoms or enjoyment in life for fear of once-in-a-million+ events. My ex is extremely paranoid and has ridiculously irrational fears when it comes to anything-or anyone-foreign. I am taking 2 of my daughters (ages 12 and 15) on a trip over Spring Break to Punta Cana in a month, and I swear she thinks they will surely die outside of the country if I don't keep them within arm's reach at all times, and every foreigner has designs to cause them harm. She did, reluctantly, sign the consent form so they could get their passports--with the understanding that she will kill me if any harm comes to them. Caution is one thing, but to be held captive by your fears is a horrible way to go through life, and I don't want my children to miss opportunities and experiences because they fear the absolute worst at all times.
Finally, the person who did this, like all child rapists/child killers, is a sick and vile mother effer who deserves to suffer excruciating pain throughout eternity. No punishment is too severe for someone so depraved. It is beyond me how anyone could commit such heinous acts as destroying the purity and innocence of a child and violently ending the child's life.