It is good. I have refrained from heavy drinking since I was married and really didn't drink that much before I married. My wife's father was a WWII vet who served in the South Pacific in a rifleman company. He was a trained sniper. The war took a toll on him as he was involved in some of the most intense fighting in WWII. He saw a lot of death and he drank heavy for the rest of his life. My wife was scared from childhood because of it. Some of these scars continued into adulthood.
We really didn't know how vicious the battles were he was involved in until his funeral. A stranger showed up who was a WWII vet also and explained to the family what he went through. He was decorated at the Battle of Peleliu with a Bronze Star with valor. The high casualty rate at Peleliu exceeded that of all other amphibious operations during the Pacific War. It was "the bitterest battle of the war for the Marines". They pretty much got wiped out and the Army's 81th Infantry was assigned to the 1st Marines to offer support. This was the unit my father in law was in. The 81th also took heavy casualties. The 81st was nicknamed the "Wildcats" and composed of soldiers from the South and rural areas. The Wildcats grew out of the The "Stonewall Jackson Division", named for the beloved Southern General.
My wife had no idea about any of this until after his death and she searched the records and discovered the documents of the viciousness of the battle. His Army records were amazing. He never discussed it but his brother told of the time he killed a Japanese sniper who had the Company Commander in his sights. Her father shot the Japanese soldier dead. Experiences like this no doubt kicked off a serious drinking addiction for the rest of his life. I made a promise to my wife before we married that any drinking I did would be social only and limited. She would never see me stagger home or drunk. I found it was not a hard promise to keep.