Going away to college straight out of high school just wasn’t financially possible for me (and the only 4-year schools nearby were private and REALLY not financially possible). Community college was my only option and to be honest at times I didn’t think that was feasible. Did that for 2 years while working/saving to be able to go off to UK. Not everything transferred perfectly but it was my foot in the door to a 4-year school. Worked in retail/banking 35-40 hours/week during school and more in the summer and was able to graduate with much less student loan debt than some of those around me. With that said, poverty sucks. It really, really sucks. It forces you to make decisions on things the vast majority take for granted. If you don’t have the tools necessary to make solid financial decisions (going from having nothing to suddenly having loan money readily available without those tools), I do have empathy for those who see a bad choice (loans) as their only really option for escape.
My wife had a full ride to a small private school and went to professional school at UK. We got married with her having 2 years left at UK. I was working so we only took out the minimum in loans to cover her tuition over the last 2 years but her 4 years of grad school loans and my undergrad loans were nothing to sneeze at. After her graduation we buckled down, cut our lifestyle and paid off the loans more quickly than we had even planned. It stunk but was worth it. As an aside, we both chose fields of study that were actually, ya know, marketable and allowed us to have enough income to pay the loans back.
All of that said is with this in mind…. Without student loans I had no shot of having the type of career I saw for myself. It just wasn’t possible. They absolutely are potentially financially disastrous but, managed correctly, they also give some people a chance.