I don't believe in the switching gender thing but you're pretending it's an epidemic when it's not. A majority of teachers are not telling parents to "shut up and let them decide what's best for their kids." Teachers actually want parents more involved, not out of the equation so they can mold kids into what you fear - the evil liberal who is open minded. Dipshits like Bevin and accounts like LibsofTikTok have taught folks like you to dislike teachers instead of trying to work with them. It's another BS "Us vs. Them."
I don't know much about the CRT stuff but slavery should be taught in schools. We shouldn't hide from our past or say "well, okay, it happened here BUT IT HAPPENED ELSEWHERE IN THE WORLD TOO." Many of the people we were taught about owned slaves. It is what it is. Heck, I've got someone in my ancestry who claimed an old woman was a witch in 1692 and that woman died in a Salem prison. America has skeletons and both the good and the bad should be taught. I watched Roots in high school. That didn't make me hate white people.
The LGBTQ stuff? I'm not wasting my time with you on that. If you're proudly claiming someone is mentally ill because they wave a colorful flag or simply want gays to keep being able to get married or think drag shows are sorta fun, you're kind of a dick. Teachers and the school system aren't your enemy. That system may have problems, but there's no grand scheme to turn your kids against you, although I doubt generations after yours are down with your anti-LGBTQ BS.
Finally, enjoy staying pissed. You were pissed yesterday, you're probably pissed today, and you'll be pissed tomorrow. And why? Because politics has you believing you're the good guy and the folks who disagree with you are the bad guys. It's a sport. UK vs. Louisville, Duke vs. Carolina, Liberals vs. Conservatives, Teachers vs. Parents, Us vs. Them. The last three examples are horseshit and not fun like a good sports rivalry. Enjoy your bubble where you're Superman and I guess I'm Lex Luthor lol.