I have close relatives who have ping-ponged back and forth from SoCal to Arizona for 40 years or so. When we visit, the huge urban spaces get to me. A trip to a favorite restaurant might take 40 minutes. Going to a certain bookstore might take an hour. Each way. One time I'd caught up with a college friend on Facebook and we were going to meet up when I got out West for a wedding. But when were actually there, my sideline trip to San Diego was like going to Knoxville. Just out of the question.
I don't mind space. Natural space is a kick. Southern Utah and its 60 mile vistas has become a favorite spot. But vast urban spaces are just oppressive. I feel like I'm in a sci-fi movie.