No, you're exactly who I thought you were. Your self-description here only cements my impression.
You're the kind of patient we're trained to be cautious around. He/she enters the office, talks about what a malpracticing idiot their former doc was, and immediately starts praising you, your office, your front staff, the photo of your dog on the desk, and talking about how they know from Google that you're the best to ever do it.
The red flags don't get any brighter than that. That extreme up/down attribute characterizes most of the loudest negative posters on the board. They can't regulate emotion, so their outrageous expectations come crashing down on them when not met (which is almost always).
You were a fan of Cal his whole career and were "loyal" to him before? You spent your free time tirelessly defending his honor from your friends and relatives? Given your energy level, that sounds absolutely exhausting.
I don't think he's a particularly great or evil man. He's a basketball coach - he's not Anne Frank. He's not a war hero.
He deserves "loyalty" to the extent that no remotely viable alternative in CBB can compete with him in the long run. Add that to the fact that exhibits generally decent behavior and recruits good kids, and yeah - it's wholly logical to tolerate the occasional down year and frequent annoying interview quotes. He's among the best at what he does and with all the debauchery you see with college coaches, you never have to worry about Pitino-type nonsense with him.
And look, I'm not here to launch personal attacks and call you stupid. You can take that approach if you wish. I think overly-emotional people bring a lot to the table in certain areas. But the only people who love Cal with the intensity of the Cal haters are the same up/down types who are just temporarily on the other side of the pendulum.