You should have used a better example to make your point. I usually like what you have to say but I think that was the wrong thing to say.im not going to delete a post because some one can't see past the word cancer to get to the actual point of the comment
if you can't see that I was using his mind set and ramping it up to extremes......
Things beyond our control happen and to act like we are supposed to control everything around us like owl is suggesting it absolutely crazy. Which is why I took his mind set and went crazy with it