LOL, if you can't see the difference in your examples versus UK's recent history, then you haven't thought about this much.
UNC was the runner-up in 2016 and 2022 in addition to their two titles. Big whoop if they missed the tournament once in the recent timeframe. I'm sure it was upsetting to them, but their post-season success is obviously much better than ours recently.
You say Duke had more talent than *anyone*, I say that's a rebuttable presumption. Even taking that at face value, who is responsible for recruiting UK's talent? Yep, Cal is. Rarely has a coach done less with more than Cal has. I struggle to think of one. What did the #1 classes in 2020 and 2021 accomplish in the post-season? Jack and Squat, respectively. We've also gotten our choice of transfers.
In the meantime, we've missed the tournament twice since our last title in 2012, including our worst season ever. Lest anyone forget, the man shat the bed in the 2015 final four with the greatest assemblage of college basketball talent in history. The man also soiled himself again in 2018, losing to a garbage, mediocre 9-seed K-State team at a point when our bracket had completely opened up with the #1 seed losing. Lost to an Auburn team in 2019 that was missing a key player.
No reasonable fan expects a title every X amount of years. But is it really too much for ask for a blue-blood program, the all-time winningest in NCAA history, with the second most championships, and whose championships span across multiple eras, to make deep tournament runs more often than not, and therefore position itself for a possible title?
Edited to add: Rooting for the team and for Cal to make a Final Four and hopefully win a shiny new NCAA championship trophy.