So be it? Those things that I described all happened to people I either knew pretty well, or casually. I didn't even include my in-law's neighbor back in the early 80's who went out on the patio, called out to his wife who was picking tomatoes in their garden, told her goodbye, then blew his brains out. He was terminally ill with cancer. Wouldn't it have been better if he had the option to go peacefully and painlessly, maybe as his wife held his hand, instead of doing that and having her replaying that sequence over and over in her head? Another friend found her dad lying on his bed with his brains scattered all over the wall after he found out his cancer was back and his doctor wanted him to start chemo again. He was in his early 70's and lived alone. She couldn't reach him on his phone, so she drove out in the boondocks about 45 minutes away after dark to check on him, only to find him like that. Maybe if he had the option to go out peacefully, his daughter would have been spared the shock, heartache and memory of seeing him like that.