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First, I don't think you understand what the word lecture means. I don't lecture anybody in life.

And yes, if any Christian affirms divorce outside of infidelity (or physical violence), they are not a faithful Christian. They are affirming sinful behavior.

Where does Jesus say that?
 
I don't believe I ever said that Jesus said that...does He need to say that for us to know that divorce should be permissible because of an abusing spouse?
So NOW you can decide what YOU want him to have meant! If he said it’s okay with adultery to divorce but not specifically for abuse but not you’ve said it’s implied basically, how convenient for you.
God's Word doesn't change.

Just because society now affirms homosexual relationships, abortion, etc does not change the Lord's Word.

There is nothing figurative or metaphorical in the Bible when it comes to God's design for marriage, His condemnation of homosexuality and the sexually immoral. Also, the Bible is very clear in calling out sin in other Christian's lives. I am sorry you don't want to live that out, but God is clear.

You as a Christian should be affirming God's Word to help those who are lost find and follow Jesus, not affirm and support what is sinful in the Lord's eyes.

Christians job is to speak the Lord's truth, not affirm what society says is their truth.
You completely forgot to end this with, “in my opinion”.

You don’t KNOW any of this, that’s why it’s called faith. Now quit speaking out of both sides of your mouth because it works in your favor here.

Jesus Christ you’re annoying, bro.

I do agree it’s much different in person to have the convo.

Also, many of us on here actually do know each other and hangout out somewhat regularly.
 
My man...similarly to the passage you just quoted in Romans that Paul was speaking on, I am reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 26: "The spirt is willing, but the flesh is weak."

I think your passage and the one I just quoted perfectly sum up the tug of war in believers' hearts. So often, we want to please the Lord, follow his commands, share Christ with others, walk in obedience to Him, but man, our sinful flesh/desires rule the day.

Every single believer, including the great Apostle Paul who authored so much of the New Testament, share this same struggle.

The only ways (that I know of) to combat these struggles is through continued prayer, and time in God's Word. Doesn't mean they go away, but gives us strength through Him to know that His power is made perfect in our weakness.

Because iron sharpens iron, being in a community with trusted believers who love Jesus provides a huge assist. When a brother or sister directs my attention to a sin that creates a struggle and reminds me of God’s word and His desire for my surrender to His faithful love, I am thankful. It may sting, but it helps me stay focused upon Him when I stray.
 
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Well it is not how I feel...it is what God's Word says.

That is the ultimate standard in life.

If someone genuinely repents (which means change, not just asking for forgiveness) of their sin, places their faith in Jesus' work on the cross, then they now have a relationship with God.

Same applies to someone who has been divorced 5 times as it does to someone who was in a homosexuality marriage for 40 years.

It's simple, genuinely repent, surrender your heart, and place your faith in Christ, and you will be in the most joyous relationship in this life with God.
Curious. If a man divorces his first wife for no biblical reason, then remarries another woman and has kids, is he still an adulterer? Should he repent by divorcing her and either A. Reconcile w his first wife or B. Stay unmarried if his first wife remarried?
 
So NOW you can decide what YOU want him to have meant! If he said it’s okay with adultery to divorce but not specifically for abuse but not you’ve said it’s implied basically, how convenient for you.

You completely forgot to end this with, “in my opinion”.

You don’t KNOW any of this, that’s why it’s called faith. Now quit speaking out of both sides of your mouth because it works in your favor here.

Jesus Christ you’re annoying, bro.

I do agree it’s much different in person to have the convo.

Also, many of us on here actually do know each other and hangout out somewhat regularly.
Jesus doesn't mention rape or pedophilia as well. I don't need Jesus to explicitly talk about those things to know they are inherently wrong, just like I don't need Jesus to talk about divorcing a spouse because they are physically abusive to know that is permissible.
 
Iron does sharpen iron, but @mcnicKY91 is the flaccid dildo of life and being enjoyable to be around and converse with so he’s useless in sharpening anything.

-Proverbs 27:17
 
Exactly, you’re saying your personal interpretations are correct and you know better than the rest of us. See how much BS that is? You’re saying Jesus said “X so you have to do it!” But he didn’t say “X but my opinion is he meant this too so (my belief) is the right one.”

You said he didn’t “explicitly”talk about those things, weird because he sure pointed out murder, stealing, jealousy/lust, lying, etc.

You sir are interpreting the Bible in how you see fit and correct and that’s exactly what you said I can’t do.
Jesus doesn't mention rape or pedophilia as well. I don't need Jesus to explicitly talk about those things to know they are inherently wrong, just like I don't need Jesus to talk about divorcing a spouse because they are physically abusive to know that is permissible.
Also, maybe pedophilia isn’t mentioned because they were having sex with 13 year olds then, so there was no rule against it.

Rape isn’t mentioned either as you said so… you said you don’t follow man’s law you follow the Bible. Well that being that, looks like you can bang children and rape dudes!
Congrats!
 
Where does Jesus say that?
An abusive husband disobeys Jesus. Men are to love their wives and not be harsh with them. We are to love them as Jesus loves the Church. We love as if they are a physical part of us and to God, we are one. Scripture informs that a wife may leave her husband, but should remain unmarried. It does not say whether that departure may be in the form of a civil divorce or not.
 
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Exactly, you’re saying your personal interpretations are correct and you know better than the rest of us. See how much BS that is? You’re saying Jesus said “X so you have to do it!” But he didn’t say “X but my opinion is he meant this too so (my belief) is the right one.”

You said he didn’t “explicitly”talk about those things, weird because he sure pointed out murder, stealing, jealousy/lust, lying, etc.

You sir are interpreting the Bible in how you see fit and correct and that’s exactly what you said I can’t do.

Also, maybe pedophilia isn’t mentioned because they were having sex with 13 year olds then, so there was no rule against it.

Rape isn’t mentioned either as you said so… you said you don’t follow man’s law you follow the Bible. Well that being that, looks like you can bang children and rape dudes!
Congrats!
Sorry you don't understand. The Bible is very clear on homosexuality, murder, using the Lord's name in vain...things you affirm, which are sinful. All of these are spoken of as sin throughout the Bible. Every single one. This is actual text in the Bible.

As for divorce, the poster asked if Jesus spoke about violence being grounds for divorce. Jesus didn't explicitly say anything about divorcing due to violence.

I am saying I don't need Jesus to, because it is common sense, to anyone. Much like rape and pedophilia.

Huge difference.
 
You and TC have much in common.
And you and Nick do as well with your holier than thou looking down your nose at people attitudes. I will take where I am over where you are all day long. Rogue hit it on the head earlier. If what you two are is Christian, then I absolutely want no part of it. You guys are prime example of why people feel the way they do about Christians. Your over inflated value in your own self worth just blinds you to it. If you two were half as perfect as you think you are and act, the Romans would've nailed you both to a cross.
 
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Sorry you don't understand. The Bible is very clear on homosexuality, murder, using the Lord's name in vain...things you affirm, which are sinful. All of these are spoken of as sin throughout the Bible. Every single one. This is actual text in the Bible.

As for divorce, the poster asked if Jesus spoke about violence being grounds for divorce. Jesus didn't explicitly say anything about divorcing due to violence.

I am saying I don't need Jesus to, because it is common sense, to anyone. Much like rape and pedophilia.

Huge difference.
Well I know as a human, that if two people of the same sex are in love and want a sheet of paper saying that, I really don’t think God cares at all.

The Bible literally says, “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” I think and will always believe he’s fine with two dudes in love banging it out and being married. How does it hurt anyone? It’s love.

You also didn’t respond if you wore different clothes on the same day as the Bible says you shouldn’t.

Do you treat your body as a temple? No sweets, alcohol, you’re in good shape, no tobacco, etc?

And I was on your alls side with TCurtis until the Prophet McNK-owitall started talking down to people and using his interpretations as facts.
 
And you and Nick do as well with your holier than thou looking down your nose at people attitudes. I will take where I am over where you are all day long. Rogue hit it on the head earlier. If what you two are is Christian, then I absolutely want no part of it. You guys are prime example of why people feel the way they do about Christians. Your over inflated value in your own self worth just blinds you to it. If you two were as perfect as you think you are and act, the Romans would've nailed you both to a cross.
This is exactly what I’m talking about caveman and mcnic, when you talk like this you push people away you’re not bringing people in.

This is why we can’t get anyone between 18-50 in the church (unless they grew up in it) because they don’t want to be talked down to by holier than thou people. It’s rude and gross.

Your churches probably still sing out of hymnals and have zero 30 something in there.
 
This is exactly what I’m talking about caveman and mcnic, when you talk like this you push people away you’re not bringing people in.

This is why we can’t get anyone between 18-50 in the church (unless they grew up in it) because they don’t want to be talked down to by holier than thou people. It’s rude and gross.

Your churches probably still sing out of hymnals and have zero 30 something in there.
I go to New Hope in Adel IA. Feel free to come if you are ever out in the Des Moines area. We have two services, one at 9, the other at 10:30. About 300 ppl a service.

God Bless.
 
And you and Nick do as well with your holier than thou looking down your nose at people attitudes. I will take where I am over where you are all day long. Rogue hit it on the head earlier. If what you two are is Christian, then I absolutely want no part of it. You guys are prime example of why people feel the way they do about Christians. Your over inflated value in your own self worth just blinds you to it. If you two were half as perfect as you think you are and act, the Romans would've nailed you both to a cross.
It’s interesting that you perceive an attempt to adhere to God’s will, as stated Biblically, as being a statement as to my self-worth or a statement of perfection. That perception is on you, not on me for stating what scripture teaches.

But, I am thankful that you would have the Romans finding me aligned with Jesus. That is probably as humbling a compliment as I have received, as much as I question its veracity.
 
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And you and Nick do as well with your holier than thou looking down your nose at people attitudes. I will take where I am over where you are all day long. Rogue hit it on the head earlier. If what you two are is Christian, then I absolutely want no part of it. You guys are prime example of why people feel the way they do about Christians. Your over inflated value in your own self worth just blinds you to it. If you two were half as perfect as you think you are and act, the Romans would've nailed you both to a cross.
See what I have just proven. In an earlier post of yours, you said you have no problem with Christians not affirming sinful behavior (so long as it doesnt prevent ppl from getting a cake baked). That is exactly what I have done in this thread. And I only called out a fellow Christian (which I am biblically called to do), never once have I called out a non believer.

Seems like you do have a problem with Christians not affirming sin.
 
It’s interesting that you perceive an attempt to adhere to God’s will, as stated Biblically, as being a statement as to my self-worth or a statement of perfection. That perception is on you, not on me for stating what scripture teaches.

But, I am thankful that you would have the Romans finding me aligned with Jesus. That is probably as humbling a compliment as I have received, as much as I question its veracity.
It isn't the message you provide. Its the way in which you provide it. Delivery matters but you are too damn arrogant to even recognize it.
 
See what I have just proven. In an earlier post of yours, you said you have no problem with Christians not affirming sinful behavior (so long as it doesnt prevent ppl from getting a cake baked). That is exactly what I have done in this thread. And I only called out a fellow Christian (which I am biblically called to do), never once have I called out a non believer.

Seems like you do have a problem with Christians calling out sin.
The message isn't the problem. It's your delivery. The bible even says that calling out sin needs to be discreet and tactful (not an exact quote but certainly the message). Its the arrogance in which you do it. You may not realize it (I truly hope you don't) but you come off as very condescending with a hint of "I am better than you". If you want people to take you seriously, your delivery really needs some work otherwise you will continue to push people away like Rogue has said.
 
It isn't the message you provide. Its the way in which you provide it. Delivery matters but you are too damn arrogant to even recognize it.
I have went back and re-read this thread. I have not seen myself or cavemen being rude, mean spirited, or plain jerks. We have been very respectful, and are doing what we have been biblically called to do.

We have not been demeaning, haven't called anyone any names. In fact, we are the ones who have been called names. Not sure what else you would have liked us to do.
 
It isn't the message you provide. It’s the way in which you provide it. Delivery matters but you are too damn arrogant to even recognize it.
TC, show me how to present the scripture in a way you would find acceptable that does not require me to accept the sin declared in scripture.

We can all make up our own religions and call it Christianity or anything else by saying the Bible is wrong where we want it to be wrong and right where we like it. We can all falsely claim that watching people rebel against God is loving people. But show me how to declare the truth in a way you will not demean.

Thanks.
 
I have went back and re-read this thread. I have not seen myself or cavemen being rude, mean spirited, or plain jerks. We have been very respectful, and are doing what we have been biblically called to do.

We have not been demeaning, haven't called anyone any names. In fact, we are the ones who have been called names. Not sure what else you would have liked us to do.
That doesn't mean that it doesn't come across as "holier than thou" and talking down to others. Those things can happen without name calling. And you have been rude at times.
 
TC, show me how to present the scripture in a way you would find acceptable that does not require me to accept the sin declared in scripture.

We can all make up our own religions and call it Christianity or anything else by saying the Bible is wrong where we want it to be wrong and right where we like it. We can all falsely claim that watching people rebel against God is loving people. But show me how to declare the truth in a way you will not demean.

Thanks.
Thats up to you and your god to figure out. I want no part of it. It isn't just a you problem either. As has been mentioned multiple times, attitudes like the one you and Nick convey is a big reason people under the age of 30 or 40 no longer participate in Christianity. Eventually, the only people following Christianity will die because they are older if you don't figure out a way to be a little more welcoming without that arrogance.
 
That doesn't mean that it doesn't come across as "holier than thou" and talking down to others. Those things can happen without name calling. And you have been rude at times.
Not at all. Have never been rude once. Not even close.

Jesus Christ loves you and wants a relationship with you. He died on the cross for all of our sins. He was tortured for our transgressions. It should have been all of us up on that cross.

God Bless, and go Cats.
 
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Not at all. Have never been rude once. Not even close.

Jesus Christ loves you and wants a relationship with you. He died on the cross for all of our sins. He was tortured for our transgressions. It should have been all of us up on that cross.

God Bless, and go Cats.
you may not have intended to be rude but it has certainly come across that way multiple times.
 
Hey OP, how’s Michael Ohr doing? Aren’t you the fruitcake that got all bent outta shape on here a few months ago about the Touhy’s?
 
you may not have intended to be rude but it has certainly come across that way multiple times.
Again...where? I have never called out one non believer in this thread. No where in this entire thread.

The only person I did was rogue, who claims to be a Christian. I did exactly what the Bible said to do.

I cannot help if you don't like the messaging, but I have never once been rude or mean spirited. Pretty sure, like I said earlier, am the one who was called all the names.
 
Thats up to you and your god to figure out. I want no part of it.
I agree you want no part of it and that is why you are so defensive to what Scripture states. There is no way anyone can present it so that you would find it acceptable without God first softening your heart and opening your mind. It is your intolerance that gets you so incensed, not the way in which it is presented. I can be abrasive, but Nick’s approach here has been patient, clear, and straight. Something in you has blinded you to that fact.

It isn't just a you problem either. As has been mentioned multiple times, attitudes like the one you and Nick convey is a big reason people under the age of 30 or 40 no longer participate in Christianity. Eventually, the only people following Christianity will die because they are older if you don't figure out a way to be a little more welcoming without that arrogance.

I worship with people under 30 and 40 and many of them teach me and keep me focused on scriptural truth. Many people, regardless of age, don’t want watered down truth, because it no longer is truth. They want to truly know God.
 
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Hey OP, how’s Michael Ohr doing? Aren’t you the fruitcake that got all bent outta shape on here a few months ago about the Touhy’s?
Nope. Wasn’t bent out of shape at all. Simply said to wait before judging any of them for the entire story to come out. Said Oher probably wasn’t as bad he looked and the Tuohys probably weren’t as angelic as people were trying to make them out to be. Thanks for your concern pumpkin.
 
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Providing a service doesn't mean I approve of the choices they make.
That’s your opinion. Others believe differently.

And as for your opinion there…quite a stretch, to put it mildly, based on what the scripture says.

You and some others here don’t want to face up to some things. Christians aren’t commanded to condone sin. Quite the opposite.

Whether you perceive that reality as being judgmental is up to you. I just know that there’s no equivocation in what is written.

If I was doing wrong, I would certainly expect to get called out for it. The notion that this shouldn’t happen is directly correlated to the complete breakdown of our culture.

Even atheists call each other out.
 
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IIRC, in the Old Testament, blowjobs, handies and anal (between a man and a woman) are just as big of a No No as homosexuality.

D*ck in Vag is the only acceptable. Hostile doggy-style is probably even pushing it.
 
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Again...where? I have never called out one non believer in this thread. No where in this entire thread.

The only person I did was rogue, who claims to be a Christian. I did exactly what the Bible said to do.

I cannot help if you don't like the messaging, but I have never once been rude or mean spirited. Pretty sure, like I said earlier, am the one who was called all the names.
You can’t call someone out on something they don’t believe. That’s like us arguing on a sidewalk that you say 2+2=5 and I say it equals 6. We may both be wrong but you can’t call me out because I don’t believe it’s 5.

That’s the exact “condescension” about which we’re talking.

A) You said you called me out, can’t call someone on something they don’t believe, makes no sense.

B) You called me out because I “claim” to be Christian. If you can’t see how asinine and condescending that is you sir have a long way to go in a lot of things like communication, hubris, etc. It’s literally you judging whether I’m Christian enough in your view.

Well idgaf about your opinion or view on my relationship with god.

C) You CAN help the messaging. You don’t think more successful pastors with larger congregations aren’t delivering the message in a better way that more people can get on bored with? Not speaking on mega churches here just successful ones with hundreds every week in the crowd.

Like anything, the way it’s said is a huge part of whether someone is receptive to it or not. If you’re out here being a dick, well no one is going to follow you lead besides other dicks.

D) I don’t think anyone wants to go to Iowa and I sure as hell wouldn’t go to a church that says gays are going to hell and remarrying yada yada gtfoh.

You’re judging gays, excluding them and telling them the way the god made them is also forcing them to hell, that’s YOUR god not mine bro. Your god appears to be a real hypocritical Dick. Mine loves gays and accepts them as well as my Baptist church. We dgaf if you blow dudes, you love holy trinity? You’re in, come take a seat, here’s your communion.

Jesus was accepting of others, especially those different and in need of help.

He didn’t say, “Hey queers! I love you but you’re all going to hell! Here’s some wine and bread though!”

Also, it touching Iowa. Of course it’s easy to not cheat on your wife, there’s no one under two bills to cheat on her with. And of course your ex wife beat you, she’s likely twice your size with the strength of an ox.

And as the clown said, I hope you and your wife are only having missionary sex because anything else is basically a sin. I’ve done ALL those sinful positions and will do it again as I clearly don’t think god cares which direction your penis enters a vagina, plus I’ve never been married so it was adultery with all 132 gals, and that’s not even getting to strictly bjs.
 
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