It is BS for sure, the whole I stayed and had a relationship with him but he raped me is very worn out at this point, especially 10 years later than it happened. If she shows real evidence then fine but he said/she said I put zero stock into. The financial abuse is the cherry on top.
Yet none of the reported behavior happened while he was there.
What about the facts that: 1) she stayed with him for years after the alleged rapes; and 2) she never went to the police or ever claimed she was raped until around a half decade later after he’d broken up with her and thus she was no longer getting to enjoy his NBA money. Does that sound at all red flag-ish?
Yep. Last I knew, everyone was innocent until proven guilty. You can’t make assumptions either way until the facts come out.
They weren't living together according to that article. It mentioned one of the allegations was his breaking into her residence.
This part of your comment I gotta speak up to. Women in this situations often feel controlled, they’re scared to leave, their minds get warped into thinking it was their fault, they bright it on themselves etc. To someone who’s never been in the situation, it seems ridiculous to stay with them, but you absolutely cannot comprehend the thinking of a victim of major abuse unless you’ve experienced it. And it often takes years to come to grips with it.
Well, neither will happen since this does not involve any criminal charges.
I am aware it does happen but color me extremely skeptical when they go straight for money over charges. Also the false allegations toward those with money is outlandish. I know that hurts real complaints and it’s why people who are proven to be false accusations be held to the same standard as the crimes they allege were committed. If she is lying, she should be required to pay him 18M-50M she wants and or the time served of the level of crime she alleged happened.
I think maybe you're misunderstanding. I have not seen anyone suggest due process shouldn't play out, but unless we are part of the court or jury that would hear this case, we are entitled to have our opinions on the matter. Particularly with how relevant these situations arise nowadays.
I know plenty of people who were in an abusive situation but most of them had plenty of evidence of it and when they pursed charges, didn’t do it anonymously. I just think this is another probable money chaser, but I certainly won’t roast him over pure accusations. If evidence comes out that he did it then I’ll roast him most deservedly.
Of course. That much is obvious. What is not obvious is whether or not a woman will be prosecuted for falsely accusing a man of rape if the accusations are false.
This does not involve any criminal charges, so there is zero chance that either one will go to jail.
That’s a shame because one of them deserves what they should get.
Gets even harder in long term relationships. And yes that can happen. Couple has relations for months, then GF or BF decides its over, and then the other commits rape to get back at them. Happens more often than you think.
