I support letting Tom speak but Cal should vet him first to see what he has to say. Then, let the players meet him and understand what can happen if you go off the rails.
Isn't that a perfect person to teach others about trusting coaches and avoiding pitfalls?Nothing like a three-time convicted rapist to inspire the team.
What kind of man is he now?Why does a serial rapist need to talk to our players? Do you have some insight on our player's character that requires having a serial rapist come in and give them a speech.
JFC, we really have some terrible fans....please keep this guy as far away from our team as possible.
Who knows.What kind of man is he now?
The only people Payne should be talking to are those in juvenile detention, warning them about the consequences of further actions.This is a bad look for the program. I can just see the headline on ESPN, "Convicted rapist addresses University of Kentucky Basketball Team".I didn't see anyone defending a rapist. Where is that conclusion because HE wants to speak to the team? What I and some others were saying only focused on his comment on Rupp (not removing the name). I am re-reading and must be missing the part where anyone said it's a great idea to have him meet the team?
I'm sure that's how Derek Chauvin felt about certain people too, one day, you too will be judged
I don't need to trust him. He is perhaps the single greatest example of failure ever from UK or most universities. He is 70 years old and I seriously doubt he is Hannibal Lector at this point. I certainly don't want him as any type of ambassador but that doesn't mean he can't bring value to the program in a unique way. Perhaps he has finally conquered his demons. I doubt UK allows him to speak but they might.Who knows.
Raped. Claimed to be reformed and was paroled.
Raped again. Claimed to be reformed and was paroled.
Raped yet again. Claimed to be reformed and was paroled again.
Would you trust him?
Isn't that a perfect person to teach others about trusting coaches and avoiding pitfalls?
What kind of man is he now?
It would seem to some that a bunch of people are excited about hearing a rapist speak because it lends validity to their claims that Rupp was not racist. I say find a better source.
I am of the believe of "3 Strikes and your OUT"He's blown his chances to play the "changed man" card.
Fair enough but that seems to be what Tom is doing these days. What if he does have something of value to offer. Even when it's very late, sometimes people do change. At any rate, again, I doubt if UK wants to fight with the optics.Sadly, you are inferring our players need such a conversation, which is completely depressing. A great majority of kids Cal recruits seem to come from families that tend to cover the pitfalls their kids should avoid.
Ugh...feel sick reading some of these posts.
I don't disagree with that. That still doesn't mean he can't have something of value to add. He has certainly earned is position in life.I am of the believe of "3 Strikes and your OUT"
Wouldn't be surprised if they ran his DNA on unsolved rapes his would come up more than once.
I don't know the mans heart or his character at this point. I'm not 100% certain it matters. His value at this point may be as a reviled screw up instead of a changed man. Again, and again, it won't matter. UK almost certainly won't invite him to speak.He's blown his chances to play the "changed man" card.
On at least a couple other occasions he was allowed out of prison, briefly pretended to be changed, but then went right back to violently raping women. And they were indeed vicious violent rapes of the worst sort, the details on his convictions are quite ugly.
He was lying when claimed to be changed the other times when he was let out, so why should we believe him now?
Isn't that a perfect person to teach others about trusting coaches and avoiding pitfalls?
Oh c'mon, I think Payne's pathology goes way beyond anything that "trusting coaches" could remedy. His sins weren't caused by ignoring coaches, instead his MO was to abduct random women, beat the shit out them and violently rape them.
No player should need coaches to tell them not to do that. And anyone who is that sick ain't gonna have the sickness cured by listening to coaches. There's nothing this guy can "teach" our players that they should need to be taught.
I hear you and don't necessarily disagree, you just can't know all that for certain. It's an emotional reaction. He's lucky he never received a death penalty sentence for what he did. God does funny things thru people sometimes but I guess you'll refute that as well.Oh c'mon, I think Payne's pathology goes way beyond anything that "trusting coaches" could remedy. His sins weren't caused by ignoring coaches, instead his MO was to abduct random women, beat the shit out them and violently rape them.
No player should need coaches to tell them not to do that. And anyone who is that sick ain't gonna have the sickness cured by listening to coaches. There's nothing this guy can "teach" our players that they should need to be taught.
Serial violent rapist and sociopath. No thanks.
I would gladly invite him to my church if he truly want to seek Jesus. He has been forgiven for his sins if he has accepted Christ as we should also forgive him. However forgiving does not mean forgetting nor does it remove the consequences of ones actions. Young men should be inspired by good moral examples and Tom Payne’s life is anything but inspirational.Lots of people think this is a bad idea. You can invite him to your church if you disagree.
It would be almost as bad as letting Pitino speak to the team.I don't think that he should be allowed to speak to the team. Whether or not Payne's finally truly reformed or has any unique, worthwile advice is, unfortunately, completely irrelevant. If he speaks to the team, headlines will scream "UK's John Calipari lets three-time convicted rapist mentor team"!
thank God your not the judge.Nothing like a three-time convicted rapist to inspire the team.
Hanging out with the wrong crowd and drugs wasn't his problem AFAIK, raping over and over and over was his problem. I believe in 2nd chances but that's my limit, not 4th chances.If Tom Payne is going to talk to kids about not wasting their opportunity, hanging out with the wrong crowd and staying away from drugs then I see no problem with it.
He isn't going to be honored, he is going to be shown as a cautionary tale
not to make light of this as a serious topic but I couldn't help but think of this when I was typing
What’s of value that he can add?I don't disagree with that. That still doesn't mean he can't have something of value to add. He has certainly earned is position in life.
I don't know if he has value, that's something for UK to decide. As I've said, I doubt they want the optics. Not that it makes it much better but his last crime was 34 years ago. Perhaps he has changed.What’s of value that he can add?
“Guys, don’t violently rape women, but if you do, lie to the parole board and do it all over again...and again”.
If you want someone of value, bring in Antione Walker who blew through $100 million dollars. I’m just not sure how you think he could bring something of value.