Ah, there it is.... the faux elitism we've all come to know.
Your reaction feels very defensive. If you thought that the kid should have at least said "Whoops, sorry coach" and that's what YOU would have done, then I would say you and I were raised in a similar fashion. Nothing elite about that. So... what's the issue?
Talk about missing the forest for the trees...
Anyway, I think I've pretty clearly demonstrated what happened. The IU kid has his elbow and arm out. The 60 year old coach has been pushed sideways. The coach was irritated. He later said it was likely an accident, no biggie. If you guys think Cal, who is about as competitive and fired up as a coach can be, would have just backed off and not cared, go ahead, but I think it shows you might not know your own coach that well. I'll let you guys continue on with your pre-determined narrative thread