Thank all of you so much...

[Ima Alien]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

 

[HYTCHYE ISLAND]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

I’ve not had the chance to talk UK basketball with you but I can say that we are here for you brother. I truly can’t imagine what you’re going through but I hope each day gets a little easier. This board is amazing and the good folks here can and will help. Godspeed my Big Blue friend.

 

[Fox2monk]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

I am so sorry for your loss. I feel the same way about my wife and I dread this possibility, may she RIP. Prayers for you my friend.

 

[BC_Wader]

You got me choked up there @Ima Alien. Life is but a vapor and we need to live life to the fullest with the time we are alloted. Sounds like you guys lived and loved a lifetime and that's what a marriage should be. God Bless you sir.

 

[Fox2monk]

You got me choked up there @Ima Alien. Life is but a vapor and we need to live life to the fullest with the time we are alloted. Sounds like you guys lived and loved a lifetime and that's what a marriage should be. God Bless you sir.

I swear, I woke up all dry eyes and this hit me all misty.

 

[BC_Wader]

I swear, I woke up all dry eyes and this hit me all misty.

For sure. I just love older folks. They can teach us a lot of things if we are willing to listen.

 

[runt#69]

Big Blue Angels on our shoulders, my friend. God bless.

Go Big Blue !

 

[nickhorvathsuxazz]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

Dude, I'm crying right now. I'm so sorry you don't have your wife beside you to share this season with.

 

[KYFOSSIL]

If you just need somebody to talk to or listen, reach out to me I’ll be glad to be there for you. I went through the same thing about four or five years ago so if you ever need anything, please PM me.

 

[phyrekat]

Getting dusty here or something

 

[IL Wildcat]

Hey, we're all one big UK family around here. If one grieves, we all grieve. Grace to you! May God grant you grace, mercy, and peace! Oh, and Go Cats!

 

[JimboBBN]

Kentucky basketball is special. It seems to connect us to loved ones and each other in a way not possible by any other means.

Lost my mom to cancer in 2018. She graduated from Kentucky in the 80s. Lifelong fan that rubbed off on me as a kid and turned me into the biggest of die hard Wildcats supporters. I get emotional on big game days thinking about watching all the games with her as I grew up and into an adult. I owe my fandom to her. And just like you with your wife, I know she’s up there cheering her butt off snd nervous as ever.

We are here for you, OP.

 

[rivercatinfl]

What a beautiful story of a Wildcat fan and more importantly a loving partner.
Sometimes there are no words but I can promise you I will share this story with my family and friends to honor her.
God be with you and your family during this difficult time.

Go Big Blue!!

 

[chroix]

Sorry for your loss friend. May her memory be a blessing for you and your family.

 

[CastleRubric]

Very sorry for your loss

Dont underestimate how this site could help with the grief process

I met some ppl on here at dicey moments in life and was better for it

Love your fellow Cats and Kentuckians (and some Tennesseans maybe)

 

[westerncat]

Ima Alien , God bless you my friend so sorry for your loss. You were truly blessed to have your wife by your side for 50 years. Prayers for you my friend. My wife and I have been married for 55 years years and think God every day for her. Just remember the good times you both had together.

 

[Creed Bratton]

 

[blue cincy]

Prayers for peace and healing. Prayers to help with lonely times. Always keep your loved ones close.

 

[billoliver40]

My wife passed away three years ago on the 17th. 38 years. Some days it seems like ten years, some days it was yesterday. My faith, family and church helped me...and the knowledge that one day we will see each other again. Until then life rolls on...although different.
Prayers for you my friend.

 

[*CatinIL*]

Ima Alien, I’m sure she was there with you cheering on the CATs. God Bless.

 

[ArtLaibsGhost]

So sorry for your loss. I hope time eases your pain as I know it will never really leave you. Prayers buddy

 

[FirewithFire]

I am sorry for your loss. To loose one so entwined with your own soul....there are no words for that.

I lost my father in May. He was my basketball buddy. Not having him here beside me at game time to see Pope rejuvenate the program is a gut check, especially when he was just here watching with me a few months ago.

If you find yourself getting too lonely or lost inside your own head just log on here and find someone to talk to.

 

[kywildcat41086]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

So sorry for your loss I really am I will be praying for your healing in this time of need.

 

[HerrosHeroes]

I can relate some what as my wife had 3 strokes about a yr ago and Ive been taking care of her and the house. Im sorry your wife is gone because I cry almost everyday thinking about the prospect of losing mine.
Prayers to Jesus for you my brother.
Stay strong.

 

[natron20]

Goodness. So sorry to the OP and to all the others who posted here that have endured difficult loses. I lost my parents three years ago, and I understand exactly what you’re saying.

Prayers for you and everyone else going through hard times.

 

[cathouse]

Two months ago, the true love of my live, my best friends, my life-long companion, my wife of 50 years, passed away.

I have spent all of that time missing her, most of it grieving and crying a lot.

She was a tremendous wildcat fan. If at all possible, she never missed a game. I always put her in front of the TV before the game. I bought her a 65" 4K TV for her to watch all the games she could. She spent considerable time in the hospital the last few years and we always had to have the TV in her room tuned to the games there if there were any on while she was there.

During the last few months, she was very weak as her health depreciated more quickly.

But she still had to have those games on. She could barely hold her head up, but sometimes Kentucky would make a basket, and she would raise her fist in the air and give out a resounding "YES", that would be surprising for one so feeble.

So come last Tuesday and our game with Duke. I knew she wouldn't want to miss this game. It was hard to hold back the tears at the sight of the empty space in front of the TV. I know it was probably all my imagination, but I seemed to feel her presence there with me as I watched the game, getting stronger and stronger as the game progressed.

As usual during a close game, I started going crazy near the end. I forgot what all I was saying but I remember saying something like come on baby let's get 'em to a win.

Well, you know what happened. Perhaps she gave a little heavenly help. She hated Duke as much as I do. I don't know, but I will have her place ready for every Kentucky game from now on.

Oh, and the thanks is for all of you on this board that have helped so much to occupy my mind reading your posts for the last couple of months, although I just haven't felt like posting. Thanks again.

Grief is a long difficult journey when you lose your soul mate. Praying for you buddy.

Remembering the good times helps.

 

[BlueSince92]

So sorry for your loss, brother. May you be joyfully reunited in Christ. Will pray for you.

 

[Cold Stout Beer]

What a dump.