You are combining the decision and how they implemented the decision. 99.99% of all people (including UNC coaches and leaders) agree with the decision. My problem is the way the NCAA implemented their decision. I don't have a dog in the hunt, but I am a parent and I try to think through what is fair and logical. The kid did not play at school #1. His entire coaching staff left from school #2. Both previous schools wrote letters of recommendations for the kid. I'm speculating that his elgibility will have minimal impact for UNC football simply based on the first two schools. (But, that's not the point.) The NCAA sat on their decision and this kid was already attending UNC when they made their announcement.
I have zero concern for UNC sports. But, NCAA is simply showing their same inept ability to take 3 steps without tripping. Reducing how many times a player can transfer without sitting out a year should have been celebrated as a move against the current "NIL free agency" atmosphere. But, their fumbling of how they implemented the decision shows again they prioritize $ over what is best for an individual student.
You must ask the question, "Why didn't NCAA make a big announcement when the decision was made?"
Now, I hope UNC sues NCAA. I'll buy popcorn and sit back and watch the charade. NCAA has hurt feelings because Mac called them out. But, I agree with you on the point that top UNC brass doesn't care. This appearance that they might sue the NCAA is a charade to try and win public opinion. But, I guarantee you Mac Brown isn't putting on a show. I'm sure his people told him with a "wink and nod" over the summer that the kid will be grandfathered in because he's already on campus. So, their top officials are making threats just to appease Mac. He's brought their football team back to respectability and has it in a good place to hand off to another coach. Football is the cash cow for college athletics. They'll appear to make a big deal out of supporting the player, but it's a song and dance for recruiting and trying to impress their next football coach.