If people are soft,that means a generation of parents raised them that way.
It's not true for all of them anyway...Anthony edwards, Jason Taytum, etc don't participate in load management etc.
Most of the nba runs action offenses...zoom, floppy, etc. The same thing people like pope run... the difference is the nba is professionals.
So your real issue is analytics. Shooting a 3 or a layup is a higher % shot than a free throw line extended shot. Which steph curry is your culprit for turning it that way
The European influence of how the game is played is changed it too. The last 6 mvps are foreign born and played overseas type basketball. Add in Luka as another top player in the league. Although, foreign players generally have all around better fundamentals and that traces all the way back to how ppl learn the game. In the US, kids practice once a week and play AAU 5 days a week, in Europe kids practice 5 days a week and play once.
Your right, they'll have to adjust as 80s basketball was largely unwatchable too outside of two teams. People like bill laimbeer deserved no where near a court. The jordan rules was a strategy to just foul non stop.
There's obviously more still to playing, otherwise Brea would be the projected top pick...