Update… came back downstairs at 4:15 and the house is a complete wreck. All rooms, all floors, food everywhere….My wife is stay at home mom and this house is beyond chaotic from 6am - 7:30pm. Today, she was gone from 7am to 12:30pm and I took care of kids while working (taking calls and zoom meetings). Easy as shit.
She got home and both kids were dressed (a rarity), brushed, had done a drawing (for mom of course 🙄), had a huge lunch, all dishes done, 3 loads of laundry done, and the kids sitting and watching a movie.