Here’s a feel good story…
I think I’ve mentioned my dad has dementia, still does alright plays golf regularly but has stopped recognizing certain people or responding to conversations he doesn’t understand or get, as does his wife now. 🤦🏼♂️
Well her family is some pretty crazy Christian types and her sisters came and talked her into going to visit them across the state (Michigan) a few days back and she obliged, packed a small bag and left with them.
Sisters are now saying they’re refusing to return her and she’s staying with them because her son and his wife that were basically living with them weren’t giving them proper care. He’s a detective and I’ve spoken with him many times, he’s doing it because he’s a kid son not because he and his wife want to live with an elderly couple with dementia. I mean, that alone sounds miserable.
Anyway, if the sisters don’t bring her back there’s not much anyone can do about it so he and his wife would leave the house leaving my dad with no license, but no idea he’s not supposed to be driving, no one to live with and unable to care for himself. Thus the state of Michigan is in overdrive trying to get him committed somewhere while I’m waiting for my POA papers to show up with everything else I moved up from KW.
Now I’m in overdrive applying for a mortgage loan to buy a house as he’d have nowhere else to go until I could find assisted living for him(can’t afford a new house and assisted living for him). He’s got plenty of money but there’s no way for anyone to access it for who knows how long.
Anyway, that’s your uplifting Michigan story of the day!
Long and boring to most but thought maybe someone else has been in that situation and could shed some light for me, I have no idea what I’m doing with all this.
PS-My sister in law began a 9-10 hour brain surgery at the Mayo Clinic today to remove a tumor…