Anal, I think.
I think being "seedy" is what got him into this trouble in the first place.
She was living with me for four years and I most certainly wasn't snooping. Her clean clothes had piled up in a stack to where I couldn't see the tv so I started putting them in a new dresser. The paper with the follow-up appointment was in that stack of clothes. So I googled the place and was horrified to find out what it was. But somehow I'm the asshole? My first thought was that it wasn't mine as well but when I went to see her she swore on her sobriety, a big deal for addicts that not only was it mine, but that she'd never once even thought about cheating on me.
She started using drugs when I ended things and now she's been sober for four years so it's one of the 12 steps, to make things right with someone you've wronged and tell the truth.
I did. 👍🏻OP should still wear a condom this time just to be safe.
I've found in my experience total strangers will be more blunt and honest than most friends who will likely tell you what you want to hear.
True life is crazier than fiction. In my 41 years that quote has been very accurate.
I've never even been to a trailer park, nor have I ever hooked up with a girl from a trailer park. I literally live in lake House and work as a respiratory therapist. I hope none of y'all's wives work at a hospital, cause the women are promiscuous asf.
thanks. She is in recovery and is making amends. That is a hard place to be, but is a good sign for her life.
Maybe the clinic she went to gave her the birth control pills.
Nope. When I confronted her about it she straight up admitted it. She was 22 at the time and I was 36. My anger came from her not telling me she was pregnant and that she didn't include me in the decision. It's literally why I changed my position on abortion 180. I had always thought of the women's rights but never the men's.
I think that's what I'm gonna do. I need to get the pain and betrayal out of me. It's like poison. If God forgives that surely I should. Thank you for the advice. Truly.
I assuming because a) he's posting about it because it clearly bothers him, and b) I don't think it's too high of a bar to set to demand someone be upfront about a pregnancy and at least have the decency to get the father's input.
First, OP broke the 1/2 your age + 7 rule. Secondly, he had unprotected sex with the gal. I would argue anybody who does that had it coming, which is another way of saying "deserve".
What is the 1/2 your age +7 rule? You should never date a girl half your age +7? Generally asking as a question cause I've never heard of it. It's not like a one night stand or a f_(k buddy. We lived together four years. You don't do that to your partner like that. I usually like your posts but it seems we have a vast difference in understanding this. Agree to disagree.
Okay well thanks for explaining it. Have no problem with your outlook, hell maybe it was proven correct.
