My journey is like no others, probably.
My two favorite genres since childhood in the 1980s have always been heavy metal and rap. Polar opposites with a few similarities (represented “voiceless” groups, rebellious in nature, not scared to push boundaries of what is socially acceptable in music)
Age: 8-12 I was really into the LA sound aka hair metal aka glam metal. My favorite band if that era by far was Guns N’ Roses. To my young ears they were the real deal and their peers were impostors. Also like some 80s rap like LL Cool J, Run DMC and Beastie Boys.
Age 12-15: Got really big into thrash metal and the dawn of gangsta rap. Favorites included Megadeth, Slayer, Metallica and Testament on the metal side and Dr. Dre, Snoop, Ice Cube and Too Short on the rap side
Age 15-16: Got into post-grunge, grunge and ska. Favorites were STP, Alice In Chains, Soundgarden, 311, Sublime and Reel Big Fish. Pretty big into groove metal bands as well, including Pantera and Machine Head.
Age 16-21: Got one of those big bumping stereos in my car and listened almost exclusively to rap, with an emphasis on the “dirty south” because it had so much bass. Favorites included 2Pac, Master P/No Limit, UGK, Outkast, Three 6 Mafia and Cash Money Records.
Post college: Experimented with some (then) new/popular bands like System of a Down, Radiohead, Modest Mouse, Wilco, etc. but that phase didn’t last too long because heavy music has always been
Mid 20s-30s: Metal dude. All metal. All the time. Gatekeeping.
Late 30s to present: Mostly listen to old bangers but also enjoy some newer metal artists. I no longer listen to new rap. I think that’s a genre you age out of. I still bump the classics from time to time.
Current top 5 (no order)
1. Megadeth
2. Guns N’ Roses
3. Alice in Chains
4. Clutch
5. Machine Head
Genres I never got into: Country, R&B, pop