It just totally went over your head. He's not worried about Hami's parents; that's just absurd. He's worried about the kid. He's saying he's trying to do everything he can to show the kid love and compassion and help him through this. Will it work? Who knows. But one thing that is certain; if he pulls the plug there's no chance he helps the team the rest of the year.
I've been as down on Hami as anyone. He doesn't play winning basketball. But he does play hard; he just makes dumb mistakes, often at the worst times. I'm not convinced at all that it will change, at least this year. That being said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with what Cal said. In fact, it makes him a better person than I, or the vast majority of posters on this board, would probably be if in the same situation.