but there were times when a girl would try and save like 30 pool chairs or something ridiculous and people were like WTF.
That's like the most chick thing of all-time. Why do women care so much about having everyone in a group sit together? This has always driven me nuts. If we have 15 people, I'm not going to be able to talk to everyone anyway so who gives a F if we're all seated together?
Actually, I know the reason- so as not to hurt any other woman's feelings.